Behaviour

"When schools are safe, disciplined and positive environments, teachers can teach and pupils can learn- free from disruption" - School Behaviour Hub

At Mile Oak, we recognise that all behaviour is a form of communication. A child’s behaviour reflects how they are feeling and may be expressed through both positive and negative actions.

These behaviours are often triggered by underlying feelings that stem from deeper needs. For this reason, we place great importance on supporting children to develop the social and emotional language they need to express themselves.

By helping children to communicate their feelings effectively, we can better understand their needs and provide the right support to enable them to self-regulate and thrive in school.

Vision

Our ambition is to create an inclusive school where every child feels a strong sense of belonging. We celebrate diversity and difference as strengths within our modern community.

At Mile Oak, we believe behaviour is not only something to be managed, but also an opportunity to shape positive attitudes and values. We aim for all children to:

  • Thrive academically through the development of positive learning behaviours.
  • Build social and emotional language to express themselves effectively.
  • Learn and use a range of self-regulation strategies to manage their emotions.
  • Through a therapeutic approach, we seek to understand the barriers children may face, while empowering them to take responsibility for their choices and find solutions that help them grow.

Our vision is that every child leaves Mile Oak as a confident, resilient learner and a positive contributor to their community.

Our Aims

  • To create a calm, positive environment.
  • For all children who feel nurtured, respected and listened to.
  • For all children to feel they belong.
  • For children to have the skills to develop secure friendships with their peers.
  • For children to have the social and emotional language to express themselves, their emotions and strategies to self-regulate.
  • For children who take a pride in their learning and their school environment.
  • For staff to be positive role models to children.
  • For staff to have a consistent approach.
"At Mile Oak we foster a sense of belonging"

Behaviour Policy

Regulating Behaviour at Mile Oak School

We are curious not furious and support children emotionally.

We are warm strict and have clear boundaries.

An important message to ALL our children is that they must be in class learning and brain break are in class.

Ambition, Respect, Pride, Courage. These are talked about daily and used when feeding back on learning behaviours, relationships and general behaviour

Relationships underpin everything we aim to achieve. The whole school community feel valued and respected.

Children are personally greeted at the door in the morning, after break, after lunch and after assembly.

In order to support our children’s social and emotional wellbeing, we use the therapeutic approach to behaviour. We recognise that each child is unique and come from different settings.

We recognise that behaviour is triggered from feelings, which stem from the deeply rooted needs of a child.

 

We recognise the importance of self-regulation. We use the zones of regulation to teach them about their emotions, triggers and strategies to help them to regulate. We recognise triggers and support our children to regulate.

Blue Zone

Sad, sick, tired or bored (low state of alertness –brain and/or body is moving slowly or sluggishly). ​

Green Zone

In control, calm, happy and ready to learn (regulated state of alertness). ​

Yellow Zone

More intense emotions and states but able to maintain control, worried, frustrated, silly, excited, scared or overwhelmed (heightened state of alertness but you still have some control). ​

Red Zone

Elated, angry, wild, terrified. (heightened state of alertness and out of control). ​

Connect

You are (describe how they present) it looks to me like you are____ am I right?
Give child time to respond.

Validate and label feelings

I can see how being _____ can make you feel _____. Has this happened before?
Give child time to respond.

Limit Set

It is not okay to ______ even if you are feeling_____ because it_______.
Give child time to respond.

Problem Solving

  1. What happened?
  2. What were you thinking at the time?
  3. What have your thoughts been since the incident?
  4. Who do you think has been affected by your actions?
  5. In what way were they affected?
  6. What do we need to now to make things right?

Daily Housepoint System

Children add tokens into their house pot.

  • Arundel
  • Bodiam
  • Bramber 
  • Lewes
Weekly Awards 

Ambassador,  Writing Star, Reading Star, Oracy Champion, Daily Mile Champions, Runner of the week, P.E. Star,  Timetables Rockstars, Numbots.

At Mile Oak, staff prioritise building strong relationships with children and their families to ensure behaviour management is tailored to the needs of each individual child. We recognise that one single strategy will not work for all.

Our core message to children is that being in class and learning is the priority. We encourage the development of positive learning behaviours, which help pupils to regulate themselves and meet our shared expectations. Children are also taught that hurting others, whether emotionally or physically, is never acceptable and that all actions have consequences.

  • To know and understand our school values: Pride, respect, ambition and courage.
  • To up hold these values in class and in the playground.
  • Walk around the school silently in a line on the left-hand side.
  • Hold the door for each other and stop to let adults through.
  • Respect all people, belongings and pride in their school environment ensuring the playground, corridor and classes are tidy.
  • Express feelings age appropriately using zones of regulation
  • Wear school uniform and P.E. uniform with pride.
  • In Y5 or Y6, if a home school agreement has been signed, mobile phones can be brought to school but must be in bags and then handed to the class teacher.
  • Go to the toilet outside of learning input times if needed.
  • To learn that actions have consequences.
  • Display a range of learning behaviours; communication and teamwork, contributing in lessons, challenging themselves, independence
  • Active learners who learn from mistakes.
  • SLANT: (sit up straight, Listen carefully, Ask and answer Q, Never interrupt, Track the speaker)
  • SHAPE: (Speak in full sentences, Hands away from face, Articulate, Project your voice, Eye contact)
  • To use oracy skills express, explain and discuss.
  • Complete home tasks to the best of their ability
  • Uphold the school expectations.
  • Support school in teaching that there are consequences for actions.
  • Support their child/children with homework/reading.
  • Respect all members of the school community.
  • Discuss children out of earshot of other parents/carers/children.
  • Transparency from parents/carers about home issues.
  • Positive attitude with child towards school and learning.
  • Ensure your child is at school on time every day.
  • Ensure the school uniform policy is followed.
  • Mobile phones are not used on site.
  • Not uploading pictures- from school events- on social media.
  • Monitoring children’s phones and usage.
  • Follow the complaints procedure and not use social platforms to voice concerns.